Best wishes to all our members, both online and locally, and thanks for your support-and patience! Jo

But, we’ll be open as usual, hoping to welcome the spring along with those of you who’d like to come on the 6th April. Its a friendly space, with teas and coffees, and a library of fiction to browse and borrow free. Hope to see you soon.

Happy Coming Out Day!

Rhea was a unique, strong, kind, wonderful woman who was one of the founding members of WOW and a very dear friend to many of us. I first met Rhea some 18 years ago when she was a popular volunteer at The Arts Centre in Norwich. long before WOW Rhea was busy planning many exciting, invoative events for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. I remember a wonderful Arts week including comedy, music and literature, which was well attended and appreciated by many, gay and straight alike.( Springfest ’95 )

When WOW was in it’s infancy Rhea was a key member of the team, always invaluable for her technical skills, lack of fear of paperwork as well as her calming presence and warm personality. Always reliable and steadfast her huge amount of life experience making her an unshockable and comforting presence to many who visited the drop in. In her previous incarnation as a mental health nurse Rhea had spent time serving her colleagues as a union rep and this experience came in very handy indeed during our many meetings both at our first venue in St. Giles Street and then at Jordan House.

During this exciting, happy time Rhea met her beloved wife Edith. I believe it was during one of our regular Friday nights out at “The Talk”! I vividly recall Edith telling me that the friend she was with had asked her “So…what is your type of woman”. Edith looked across the room, pointed to Rhea and said “She is my type of woman”. As it turned out Rhea felt the same!

Soon after that the two were inseperable. I remember many happy times shared with the two of them at their little flat in Ten Bell Court. Rhea’s wonderful chip dinners, Edith’s delicious Austrian specialities, their delightful little cat Ferdy making frequent appearances! Their wedding a few years later (before the days of Civil Partnerships) was beautiful and the lively party afterwards was enjoyed by many happy friends…..I’m sure there was an arm wrestling contest too!!

I must admit that as I lost touch with WOW, once my daughter Ruby came along I also lost touch with Edith and Rhea. I knew that they were happily esconsed in their lovely house in Wroxham but didn’t catch up with them for several years until I saw them at the wonderful Norwich Pride. They had not changed, it was fantastic to see them and to be in touch again. I was so very sorry to hear of Rhea’s illness soon after that. I was so glad to be able to catch up a little with Rhea when she was ill. She had not changed, still the straightforward stoicism and the cheeky smile! She and Edith were the strongest of teams as always. I love the way they were together, devoted to one another, caring for one another even in the most painful and challenging of circumstances.

and just to let you know that the wow phone line will be closed today, 11th May 2012. We apologise for any inconvenience to you.You can still email if you’d like to.